h Phoenix Qi: Purpose
Showing posts with label Purpose. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Purpose. Show all posts

Thursday, April 5, 2007

Daoism on Gain (Harvest)

The writing I share with you is "Gain" from p. 176 of Everyday Tao: Living with Balance and Harmony by Deng Ming-Dao, Harper San Francisco, NY, 1996, ISBN 0-06-251395-8.

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Gain

"Some people might say it is hard to pursue Tao without the gain to support one's endeavors. But it's important to distinguish the exact types of gain that will actually bring us profit.

"In the beginning, the ancients taught very simple and direct ways to live with Tao. But as time went on, people embellished the teachings until they became a very complicated body of knowledge that took a thousand volumes to document. Tao became the pursuit of the rich and cultured. Only they could afford the herbs, the lessons, the expensive art materials, the beautiful living locations, the servants, the travel, and the myriad other luxuries that afforded the freedom to pursue Tao. For many centuries, the simple and rustic ideals of the ancients were obscured by wealth, alchemy, artistic pursuits, and eccentricity.

"We who want Tao may imagine that we will never succeed if the wealth and cultured living of the past are required. But that is not so. Do not be misled by the trappings of those who lived in the past. Look instead to what actually exists in your own life. As long as you live and breathe, as long as your heart beats and your mind dwells on the way, Tao can be found.

"If we look at the image of 'gain,' there is a lesson for us. (Ed: the Chinese image/character for 'gain' is two characters, 'grain' and 'a knife.') Gain is simply the result of harvest. We don't need a fancy lifestyle. We need know only where to look for grain and when to harvest it. Those who harvest the ordinary are those who ultimately gain."




















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What do you need to attain your spiritual goals? This is something I have struggled with over the years - feeling I needed this teacher, that book, some other paraphernalia to get where I wanted to go. Many people will tell you, you need a Guru, a Master (and by the way, make sure he or she has the "right" lineage!), a special ceremony in a remote temple, or at least in the Master's home or office. There are certain books you must study, and only the Master can tell you when you've studied enough; certain skills you must learn before your practice can be effective, and the skills are often hard to come by or costly.

So, what do you really need? You need You - that is all. Sure, some guidance is in order; maybe a mentor, or maybe a few great books (and I have found that, with the exception of the I Ching, if you have four books on any spiritual topic, that is probably enough - more than four, and they start repeating themselves). But the bottom line of any spiritual practice is: how much of yourself are you willing to devote to it, and how fast do you want it?

Believe it or not, speed of acquisition is a major concern to many people. They want to be spiritual, and they want it Now! Not too long ago, I had an interesting conversation with a Reiki Master on a message board. She posted the great benefits of a Reiki attunement. I have practiced qi gong for around seven years now, and combine that energy work with what I learned about healing by studying a book about Therapeutic Touch and practicing the exercises. I was fairly amazed to learn that, as far as healing went, I could do everything the Reiki Master could do. The only difference was that she was given the healing ability quickly through attunements, and I took time to gain it through qi gong practice. I really was amazed, though. Never having had an attunement, I had long thought that I was missing out on some important facet of healing ability, only to find that was a misconception and not true at all.

In fact, it's interesting to note that originally Reiki had one level and one attunement, much like Tao was originally a simple and direct practice. Obviously, it's grown into something like the later Tao practices with their embellishments. (I am not disparaging Reiki in any way - it is a very valuable practice - I only wonder if its evolution is on the right path.)

A spiritual practice means connecting with the right energy whether you call it God, The Collective Unconscious, Universal Enlightenment, or any other name. "All paths lead up the same mountain," it is only the scenery along the way that is different. You are free to choose that scenery, and make it as fancy or as simple as you like. What practices would you like to undertake? If you love ceremony, go ahead and perform spiritual rituals; if not, spend your time meditating in a quiet way and place. The results will be the same. You may read a great book, or find a Master to mentor you - the results will be the same. You can travel around the world and pray in gilded shrines and temples, or go out into your back yard and pray under the open sky - the results will be the same. The amount of personal attention and time you devote to your practice is what matters, not the trappings.

I would like to add a few words on ceremonial items, though. We've all heard the fairy tales of the wicked witch casting an evil spell on someone when provided with a personal item from that person. I won't comment on evil spells or anything, but I do believe that items you use or wear during a spiritual practice do absorb and reflect back to you some of the energy generated during that practice - special clothing, prayer beads, a statue upon which you focus. I believe it is beneficial and enhancing to your spiritual energy if you have some sort of item - clothing, jewelry, whatever - to augment the energy generated during practice. It need not be anything fancy, but it should be the same item, and should be used at all times during prayer, meditation, or other energy work. I think you will like the results!


Everyday Tao: Living with Balance and Harmony

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Tuesday, January 9, 2007

Life Purpose

"The Tao is very close, but everyone looks far away.
Life is very simple, but everyone seeks difficulty."
-- Taoist Sage, 200 B.C


If you've been giving thought lately to finding your Life Purpose, please ponder the writing "Purpose" from 365 Tao: Daily Meditations by Deng Ming-Dao, Harper San Francisco, 1992, ISBN 0062502239.

Purpose

Suddenly, things snap into focus.
I've been pursuing unity all my life,
But could only glimpse the monstrous vision in fragments;
It has haunted me for years.
Each time I sighted it, I struggled to make it concrete.
At first, it seemed I only had a sculptor's yard of unfinished figures --
Then it slowly began to make sense,
Gathered from glimpses and inferences.
More and more, this mysterious life comes together.
It may take years more to reveal the whole.
That's all right.
I'm prepared to go the distance.

One's life's destiny is not easily revealed. It's too big. You may certainly set your sights early, but you will still have to make changes and adjustments as your true purpose is clarified. When it does begin to come together, there is a tremendous feeling of assurance.

Then with each step upon the path of Tao, your certainty rings from peak to peak.

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Ask anyone these days and they'll tell you that knowing your life purpose is pretty important. The sooner you know why you’re here, the sooner you can learn your life lesson or fulfill your destiny. Many people think that finding their life purpose will make them healthy, wealthy, and wise…and famous!

I'm going to tell you something, and you may think I've missed the boat with this one, but here it is anyway: stop looking. Searching for your life's purpose can be a bit like looking for sleep; the harder you look, the more elusive it is.

While you are diligently reading the book by the latest sage or following the guidelines of the latest guru, your life purpose, not to mention your life, is wandering off in the opposite direction one street over.

If you live your life correctly, as you progress through life, your purpose will unfold before you. What is living correctly? It means living in harmony with people and the environment without expectations. (Personally, I believe this is the primary purpose of the life of every person living on this planet.)

You do have to live first, though. You can't learn about life purposes if you don't know about life. You need to try many different things, visit as many places as you can, open your mind and your heart and let in everything. The things that don't belong or aren't pertinent to you will leave soon enough on their own. The things that stay with you are the things you should pay attention to for if they, individually, do not define your life purpose, they may at least be contributing principles. Examine every "coincidence" you experience for these are messages to help you find the right direction for you.

How will you know when you have discovered your life's purpose? Doing it will fill you with joy, give you energy, you can talk about or do it for hours (paid or unpaid), and you can't wait to get started on it every morning. When you discover what makes you feel like that, you will have met your life purpose.

Do not think that this is a static purpose. You may find that it changes over time; your joy and energy move to another facet of life. That is ok. As you grow and learn it is correct that your purpose shifts to accommodate and utilize your acquired knowledge and experience.

Below is the (slightly edited) response I left on a message board in 2003 in response to a post on life purpose. I feel it is a fair description still:

I do believe, first, that you must be open to new ideas, even if they aren't your first or second choice....even if they aren't on your list of choices. These things do come out of the blue in many cases....it did in mine. You find (quite by accident!) something you do well and enjoy....something you never thought of trying except for circumstances giving you a boot in that direction.

Of course, you must love what you do, but you must also find that it is Very Easy for you to do it. If you tell someone what you do, and they say, "Wow...that is very difficult." or "I could never do that." and you don't understand why not, then you have identified something that is easy for you and that you are well suited to do.

However, "easy" can become "boring," so there must be challenges in the work. These should not be of the "Oh, no, another stupid problem," variety, but rather of the "Ah, something I can sink my teeth into," type of problem. Challenging does not mean overwhelming or distressing. It means something that brings out the best in you, and demonstrates (and allows you to practice) your specific talents.

The challenge sets you up to exercise your inspiration to tackle the problem. Only you could have thought of that solution...everyone else is still standing around scratching their heads over the problem, wondering how to deal with it, and here you've solved it. If you find the challenges are too many and too large, realize you are in the wrong place and not quite doing what is right for you. You should not need to struggle to overcome challenges; work, yes (because you love the work), but not struggle.

The final step is the reward you feel, the sense of satisfaction and accomplishment, that "I did it!" feeling.

You can find your "purpose" at any time in your life. Age does not matter. I began working as an assistant with emotionally disturbed children just as I turned 40, after having been a stay-at-home mom for 13 years. I was looking for a job, and friends thought I'd be good at this....I had never considered it as a career choice...hardly knew it existed. Now, I am beginning my tenth year in the field. It's easy for me, challenging, which I am able to overcome with flashes of inspiration, and extremely rewarding.

I have found this cycle to exist for most people who are happy with where they are in their lives, people who feel they have found their "purpose," a place where they can do the most good for themselves and others.